Let me begin by saying that we live in a house that we have been updating for seven years....actually almost eight. The farmer is a methodical and thoughtful kind of person and prefers to take his time doing things. I on the other hand am completely the opposite. I need things done yesterday. In fact I would not ask you to do something if I meant tomorrow or two years from now. It is how I was raised. My parents expected us to jump to it when requested.
This is what happens when I have asked over and over again for something to be done, from the simplest mundane "take off your shoes in the house" to the "when will the decks finally be finished?" My jaw grows hinges that just will not snap shut and lock. I don't think I am nagging but I know in his head this is what the farmer sees. Actually I am quite sure that he hears what you are hearing right now as well.
This is what he would prefer to see. "Yes dear!" But I am telling you now this IS how I always am.